Frequently asked questions
Quick answers about membership, the course, practice groups, and your account. Can't find what you need? Send a message.
What's included in the membership?
Membership is $35/month and includes the full NVC video course, a live practice group every month, practice games and exercises, early access to new content, and 10% off all private sessions and bundles.
How do I log in after joining?
Click “log in” in the top-right corner of the site and create an account using the same email address you used at checkout. Your membership unlocks automatically once you're signed in with that email.
I paid but the site says I'm not a member. What do I do?
Make sure you're logged in with the exact email you used when you paid — that's how the site matches your payment to your account. If it still doesn't unlock, reach out through the contact page and we'll sort it out quickly.
How do I cancel my membership or update my card?
Log in, go to the Membership page, and click “Manage subscription.” That opens a secure Stripe portal where you can update your payment method or cancel anytime. There's also a “Manage subscription” link in the footer of every page.
When does the practice group meet?
The practice group meets once a month, and it's included with membership. The next session is Sunday, August 30 · 1–2 pm Central. Details are on the practice group page.
What's the difference between the membership, the course, and private sessions?
The membership includes the full video course plus the monthly live practice group and games — it's the best way to learn and practice over time. Private sessions are one-on-one consultations with Micah for working through a real conflict in your life; members get 10% off.
Do I need any NVC experience to join?
No. The course starts from the fundamentals, and the practice group welcomes everyone from complete beginners to longtime practitioners.
Is there a free way to get started?
Yes — the Art of NVC podcast, the “Do You Speak Violently?” quiz, the Faux Feelings test, free preview lessons from the course, and downloadable worksheets are all free.
Is there a sliding scale if the price is a barrier?
Yes. A limited number of reduced-rate spots are available for private sessions, and every option starts with a free 20-minute consultation. Reach out through the contact page and we'll find something that works.
Do you offer workshops for companies or retreat centers?
Yes — on-site seminars, virtual trainings, and multi-day retreat intensives. See the For Organizations page to start a conversation.