This is considered violent because it is not an actual feeling. It's a perception that implies wrongdoing by another. It implies something bad has been done to them. It is an assessment of the situation indicating victimhood.
Feelings - ARE ALMOST ALWAYS ONE WORD
NEVER IMPLY SOMETHING BAD HAS BEEN DONE TO YOU.
NEVER START WITH " I FEEL AS IF..." OR I FEEL LIKE..."
CONTAIN NO OPINIONS, EVALUATIONS, OR CRITICISMS.